"We could do it family-style. A little of this, a little of that and share it all." He knows he doesn't need to explain what family style is to Jay. They've had it more than once while they were in Japan.

But he leaves the suggestion open for Jay to accept or reject. It's probably not a familiar trait. Seung is definitely a selfish person and letting someone else have control and make decisions isn't something he does naturally. It's a conscious effort he's making for Jay. Only for Jay. Because the best way to say he's sorry is to show he's changed.